Holden:
You don't? Then why don't you try again with these soulshot I have for you?
Open your Inventory, check for Soulshots or Spiritshots.
Click and Drag Soulshot/Spiritshot into your Shortcut Bar. Right Click the Soulshot/Spiritshot Shortcut Icon to use it automatically.
After this, the lights of the spirits will help you every time you attack.
Tell me when you have that done.